She Is Here™
Formerly titled 'Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey' - She Is Here™ is a podcast for women who feel they're 'too much' too sensitive, too emotional, too dramatic....and never quite enough.
Maybe you’ve read the self-help books, listened to the personal development podcasts, or previously had therapy. You understand your patterns — but something still hasn’t shifted. You get it… but you don’t always feel it.
That’s because insight alone isn’t always enough.
Patterns like people-pleasing, overthinking, perfectionism, masking, anxiety, and self-doubt aren’t mindset failures. They’re intelligent survival responses shaped by trauma, attachment, conditioning, relationships, and the environments we’ve had to navigate.
I’m Charlotte Bailey, an accredited trauma-informed psychotherapist, speaker, and spoken-word poet. Through psychology, neuroscience, lived experience, and poetry, She Is Here™ explores the missing piece mainstream self-help often skips: safety - in your nervous system and in your world.
This isn’t about forcing confidence or becoming someone new. It’s about reconnecting with the parts of yourself that learned to shrink, hide or adapt, remembering who you were before you were taught to be less - and learning how to feel safe enough to be seen.
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Access free resources (People-Pleasing Quiz-Based Webinar & Video Visibility Confidence Toolkit) & find out more about me via my website: https://www.charlotte-bailey.com/
She Is Here™
Why January and New Year’s Resolutions Make You Feel Like You’re Failing
January and New Year’s resolutions leave many women feeling like they’re failing -even when they’re trying their best.
In this trauma-informed episode, we explore why January so often triggers self-criticism, shame, and the sense that you’re “not consistent enough” or “not disciplined enough” - and why this isn’t a personal failing.
This isn’t a motivation or willpower problem. More often than not, it's a capacity issue.
We talk about how cultural ideas around productivity and self-improvement ignore emotional labour, people-pleasing, burnout, and the invisible ways many women are already holding everything together.
In this episode, we explore:
- why the 'New Year, New You' approach and the month of January amplifies shame and self-blame
- how people-pleasing and over-giving drain capacity
- things to consider when you deem yourself 'not consistent enough'
- the difference between healthy consistency and survival-based rigidity
- why pushing harder doesn’t create safety or change
- questions to ask yourself when considering what you want to change
- and how to reconnect with yourself without pressure or reinvention
This episode is an invitation to move away from “What’s wrong with me?”
And towards a gentler, more honest question: What am I already carrying, who for - and at what cost?
If January leaves you feeling behind, frozen, not good enough or quietly exhausted, this episode is for you.
This episode is part of She Is Here™ - a podcast for women who worry that they're too much and yet not enough. Charlotte Bailey a trauma-informed psychotherapist explores people-pleasing, trauma, conditioning, nervous-system safety, and combines, clinical expertise with relatable lived experience and spoken word poetry to help you remember and reconnect with who you were before you were taught to be less. So you can begin to feel safe being seen - just as you are.
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Visit my website for more information, FREE resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlotte-bailey.com/