Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey Therapies
If you find yourself saying yes when you want to say no, consistently do things for others at the expense of your own needs, or find yourself masking who you really are because you feel you're 'too much' or 'not enough', this podcast is for you.
I'm Charlotte, a former anxious people-pleaser, experienced psychotherapist, speaker and visibility mentor for female business owners who think deeply, care deeply and want to feel safe to be seen.
We'll explore all things people-pleasing; why you suppress your own needs and wants and true self for the sake of other people's, what the signs are, and the impact it can have on all aspects of your life.
I'll share personal and professional insights and you'll discover tips and strategies to help you break free from people-pleasing so you can move forward with confidence and finally say 'no' without guilt and anxiety as you embrace your authentic self, unapologetically.
I’m passionate about normalising therapy and making it more relatable, so expect down-to-earth, no-nonsense conversations—with the occasional bit of humour thrown in (fingers crossed!). My aim is to help you feel empowered to discover who you truly are, and experience the freedom that comes with letting go of the need to constantly please.
Let's Talk People-Pleasing! with Charlotte Bailey Therapies
The Hidden Problem with the ‘Let Them' Theory | Ep 27
Do you get' what you need to do - you've read the self-help books and listened to the podcasts but you just don't feel able to implement the advice?
In today’s episode, I’m sharing my view of Mel Robbins’ “Let Them Theory” - the idea that we aren’t responsible for managing other people’s emotions or choices. While this sounds liberating, for those with trauma histories, ADHD, rejection sensitivity, or deeply ingrained people-pleasing patterns, it’s rarely as simple as “just let them.”
I talk about why letting go of responsibility can feel unsafe and cover practical steps to begin gently shifting this pattern. If you've ever struggled to step back without guilt or anxiety - this one’s for you
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